How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Nothing sucks more than losing the girl of your dreams. It's even worse when you come to the realization that it's almost all your fault. Maybe you were immature and tried to play games and make her jealous. Maybe you just wanted to spend time with your friends and you left her at home on the weekends. Whatever the reason may be, if you've decided that you want to know how to get your girl back, this article may offer you some help.

The most obvious first step you have to take is to figure out why she left in the first place. What were the issues in the relationship? Was the majority of the problem you and your attitude, or her and hers? There's not much you can do if the issues mostly came from her, you can't change her, only she can change herself.

But more than likely you had your own fair share of issues and those you can admit to and change. I can't tell you what you have to do to be a better man, only you can do that. You will have to be brutally honest with yourself and be willing to invest the time and effort needed to change your bad habits and become a more mature, loving partner if you want to get back with your ex. This has got to be the first step.

The next thing you will need to do, once you've made some changes, is to prove to her you've changed. This probably won't be easy since most couples have an awful lot of emotional baggage by the time they actually break up. The best way to do it is to try to spend some time with her and let her see the new and improved you. Don't get upset if it takes her a long time to learn to trust you and to believe that the changes she sees in you are permanent. She will most likely be afraid of getting hurt again.

If she sees that you really have made some positive changes and you aren't the same person that hurt her before, you might have a chance of getting her back. If you do, it's time to find new ways for the two of you to communicate. The way you were doing it before obviously didn't work so you need to make even more changes. It's very easy for couples to get to a point where they simply aren't good at opening up to their partner about the way they feel. More often than not this is because when they tried to open up in the past their partner was indifferent, or worse, mocking of them and the way they were feeling.

None of this is brain surgery, but sometimes we just can't figure it out on our own since we are in an emotional state. Keep these simple tips on how to get your girl back in mind and if you follow these tips you and your ex may be back together in no time at all.