How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

If you want to get back together with your ex, here are some of the most effective ways to get your girlfriend back. They don't work all the time and they don't work for every situation, but they do work often enough that you owe it to yourself to give them a try.

The first thing you want to do is to change. Figure out what part you played in the relationship falling apart. Figure out the mistakes you made and the things that you need to work on so you can be a better man and a better partner.

This will take some time so don't expect to do this step in an hour or so. Most likely it will take weeks or months. During this step have very minimal contact with your ex. It's ok to call her once or twice to let her know you're thinking of her and that you still care (this will keep you on her mind too), but don't try to talk to her too often or talk her into taking you back. Give her space.

After you've spent some time working on you and your issues you should contact her and let her know what you've been doing and that you've addressed some of your issues and have made changes. Let her know that you'd like to see her. Don't make it a big "lets talk about getting back together thing", just keep it casual at this point.

The most important thing here is to let her see the new version of you. Whatever you do, you have to keep your cool. Even if she says she isn't interested in seeing you stay calm. Tell her that you understand and that you still care and that you wish her well.

By doing that you are putting your money where your mouth is and you are showing her that you really have changed. It's very possible she will reconsider and call you up to meet. This method is one of the best ways to get your girlfriend back, give it a try today.